Answers to Questions.
Mar. 19th, 2007 09:50 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I have cut the answers to these questions, so that way if you do not want to read you don't have to. However, I will note that because of the forward nature of one of the questions, I have been forward as well. A new side to me that hasn't been seen by many I figure. And so, without further ado....
Then please feel free to wish me a happy day! :) Sometimes that's more important.
I believe the answer to that question is already in the works, so yes! :)
I'm sure we'll cross paths either at a scene event or group dinner sometime soon :)
My Mommy and Daddy were once my Master and Mistress, and I met them at BR at a TNG meeting. From there we developed a friendship, and then a lot more. I'm very honored to have them as such an integral part of my life. I know my life in the past few years has been a majorly rough ride, but they've been amazing, and I love them so much. And their Gerl is ok too ;)
It took me a few hours to come up with how I wanted to write this. I don't think that its a dislike, but more of a dissapointment. At one point I actually thought you might have actually changed from the stories I had heard when I first met you, to some time later, to recently. However, in actions and in words, the stories that I had taken with a grain of salt have proven to be true and really non flattering of you. I think that you have a lot of growing up to do in your life, and I hope that you do it. You have hurt yourself just as much if not more than you have hurt others, some of which I hold very dear to me. Hurting those I care about usually loses you some points in my book as well.
Secondly,its the drinking. I've seen you severely intoxicated on more than one occassion. And while yes, I enjoy the drink just as much as anyone else, screaming at someone across a room about how much you miss them and love them (really being scary stalker), or passing out in the middle of the woods during a reenactment, that's a little excessive.
Thirdly, and really its more of a pet peeve of mine than anything, is your involvement in the reenactment community. I haven't seen one iota of any historicTal interest for you- it seems more like a reason for you to dress pretty and screw in the woods (pardon the french.) Don't get me wrong , I love screwing in the woods as much as the next person, but its not the reason I go out in the 4 layers of clothes, freeze in below 0 temperatures, wake up at the first light of dawn, cook over a fire, eat food I don't particularly love, not shower for 4 days, shoot firearms, and learn the crafts of my ancestors. Its because I love that connection to the past. I want to honor those who have gone before me, and I want to teach the generations I'm a part of about a Generation they know very little about. If you want to be a camp doxy that's fine...just know that they worked to earn their keep, and not just on their backs. If you want, I can give you some great resources on women's roles during the Revolution, and links to some good patterns and clothing providers.
I guess sometimes my dissapointment comes forth as dislike. But there you are.
Again, feel free to ask any questions, and I'll answer them through the 29th of March ( the 30th&31st I'll be at Reenactment.)
Then please feel free to wish me a happy day! :) Sometimes that's more important.
I believe the answer to that question is already in the works, so yes! :)
I'm sure we'll cross paths either at a scene event or group dinner sometime soon :)
My Mommy and Daddy were once my Master and Mistress, and I met them at BR at a TNG meeting. From there we developed a friendship, and then a lot more. I'm very honored to have them as such an integral part of my life. I know my life in the past few years has been a majorly rough ride, but they've been amazing, and I love them so much. And their Gerl is ok too ;)
It took me a few hours to come up with how I wanted to write this. I don't think that its a dislike, but more of a dissapointment. At one point I actually thought you might have actually changed from the stories I had heard when I first met you, to some time later, to recently. However, in actions and in words, the stories that I had taken with a grain of salt have proven to be true and really non flattering of you. I think that you have a lot of growing up to do in your life, and I hope that you do it. You have hurt yourself just as much if not more than you have hurt others, some of which I hold very dear to me. Hurting those I care about usually loses you some points in my book as well.
Secondly,its the drinking. I've seen you severely intoxicated on more than one occassion. And while yes, I enjoy the drink just as much as anyone else, screaming at someone across a room about how much you miss them and love them (really being scary stalker), or passing out in the middle of the woods during a reenactment, that's a little excessive.
Thirdly, and really its more of a pet peeve of mine than anything, is your involvement in the reenactment community. I haven't seen one iota of any historicTal interest for you- it seems more like a reason for you to dress pretty and screw in the woods (pardon the french.) Don't get me wrong , I love screwing in the woods as much as the next person, but its not the reason I go out in the 4 layers of clothes, freeze in below 0 temperatures, wake up at the first light of dawn, cook over a fire, eat food I don't particularly love, not shower for 4 days, shoot firearms, and learn the crafts of my ancestors. Its because I love that connection to the past. I want to honor those who have gone before me, and I want to teach the generations I'm a part of about a Generation they know very little about. If you want to be a camp doxy that's fine...just know that they worked to earn their keep, and not just on their backs. If you want, I can give you some great resources on women's roles during the Revolution, and links to some good patterns and clothing providers.
I guess sometimes my dissapointment comes forth as dislike. But there you are.
Again, feel free to ask any questions, and I'll answer them through the 29th of March ( the 30th&31st I'll be at Reenactment.)
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Date: 2007-03-20 02:56 am (UTC)Oh. My. God.
Date: 2007-03-20 03:10 am (UTC)I'll IM you about it, as this post ain't friendslocked.
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Date: 2007-03-21 03:17 pm (UTC)Question....will you call my cell phone and sing me HB?
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Date: 2007-03-21 03:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-03-23 01:32 pm (UTC)That was loverly...it was a big one, and not many remembered...and that helped big time....
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Date: 2007-03-23 01:34 pm (UTC)BIG HUGS!